12-11-2009
"He said I'll love you 'til I die..... Went half crazy now and then. He still loved her through it all. Hoping she'd come back again. They placed a wreath upon his door and soon they'll carry him away. He stopped loving her today." George Jones
A friend suggested a couple of years ago that I start sending pictures and stories about my photo taking trips to a man in Iraq. John replied back that he appreciated getting them and always talked about a long lost girlfriend that he hoped to marry soon when he was home from the war. The first time I met him he slid a black box over to me to look at. Inside was a black and silver case full of Nikon camera equipment. He said "it's yours. Just keep sending me photos when I go back to war. I bought two of these kits - one for you and one for my girlfriend."
The next time I saw him he was a mess. Anxiety, depression and vodka. The marriage didn't happen, he was heart broken and getting ready to go back to Iraq.
A couple of weeks ago I got a call from the ex-girlfriend. John was dead and she didn't know any details. Last week I got an email from her wanting me to come over to Brunswick and pick up the camera. I walked in her office and saw a black and silver box sitting near her bookcase. She pointed at it and said "John wanted you to have it. Just remember him when you use it."
I opened it up and it was still in the plastic , never been used and just like the one he had given me.
The last post card I received from John was from Iraq with a picture of a temple on the front with a hand written note on the back. "I shall be one of the few Americans who lived & worked on the sacred grounds of Babylon. Peace to your Family."
JHS
JHS
John struggled with a lot of issues and told me his life was a mess but he was good at saving other peoples lives as a medic.
I didn't know you long my friend. May you now rest in peace JHS.
wayne